Do you feel like you have lost yourself?

Recently, I have been reflecting on who I am and my purpose in life. So many things in life lead to us feeling like we no longer know who we are and what we care about. Over the last two years, many of our lives have changed drastically, and many things are no longer the same. In addition to the things happening in the world, some of us have gone through other changes, such as becoming new parents, gaining professional success, gaining financial independence, or experiencing loss. We have all been through much more changes than we were used to. With the changes could come a sense of feeling like you don't know who you are and have lost your sense of self.
 
In this blog post, we will explore how to deal with the feeling of losing yourself.
 
How are you feeling?
Acknowledging your feelings is very important. We go through life so quickly and are often not in touch with our deepest feelings. Then once we know what we are feeling, it's important not to judge ourselves and accept how we are feeling.
 
Strategies to consider

• Check-in with yourself
• Write down how you are feeling and your thoughts

 
Who are you now?
We are not the same person we were two years ago. Part of feeling that you are lost is not being in touch with who you are. Take the time to rediscover who you are now, what you like, and your dreams and aspirations.
 
Strategies to consider

• Ask yourself what you care about
• Accept your new self

 
What are new things that you want to explore?
We all change and evolve on our life journeys. Instead of yearning for what excited us in the past, it is time to think about the new things that will bring you joy. Along with discovering your new self, take time to get excited about the future.
 
Strategies to consider

• Envision new areas of your life that you want to explore
• Spend time in spaces that inspire you

 
How will you make time for yourself?
There are so many people and things that are competing for our attention. It takes much more work to find time for ourselves. I realized that everyone's definition of making time for themselves differs.
 
Strategies to consider

• Carve out time often to do the things that help you reconnect with yourself
• Prioritize yourself and your needs

 
How will you celebrate your awesomeness?
The truth is that you are who you were meant to be, and you are awesome. Not celebrating who you are and the journey you have been on makes you feel lost. Permit yourself to be your authentic self.
 
Strategies to consider

• Think about what you like about yourself
• Celebrate your unique contribution to the world

 
Final Thoughts: MC's journey
Over the last two and a half years, I have gone through pregnancy, had a baby, lived through a pandemic, worked hard, accomplished professional success, being a mum and wife. With all the significant life changes and added responsibilities, I have not had much time to focus on myself. Life is good, and I'm making progress. However, I feel like I need to be in touch with my feelings, dreams, and desires more.
Before the pandemic, I had a planning day once every quarter, where I went to the library to prepare for the quarter ahead. It helped me revisit my goals, evaluate my progress, and learn from areas where I was not accomplishing what I planned. The alone time really helped me sit with my thoughts.