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What I wish I knew about Mental Health growing up

24/5/2022

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May is Mental Health Awareness Month in the US. It serves as a reminder for us to prioritize our Mental Health. I have been reflecting on my thoughts about mental health at this stage in my life and the lessons that I learned on my journey.
 
In this blog post, I will share five things that I know about mental health that would have saved me some painful experiences if I had learned them in my childhood.
 
#1: Check-in on your mental health often
Interestingly, it is very easy to go through life and forget to check in on how you are doing mentally. It took me a while to realize that I was not aware of the state of my mental health. Sadly, I got to a place where I was really struggling before I started making changes. Knowing that I have a lot going on in my life, I am now very intentional about making sure my mental health is good. When I start feeling the impact of neglecting myself, I take action to get back into alignment.
 
What am I doing differently now? 
  • Asking myself how I am really doing at least once a week and talking with my support community
 
#2: You need to unlearn a lot you learned about mental health 
We all learned what we know about mental health from society, family, and friends. Some of the lessons serve us well, and others do not. It is our responsibility to unlearn some of those lessons and learn ways to care for our mental health. One of the things that I had to let go of was that it was a sign of strength to hide your feelings. By observing the people and hearing conversations around me, I learned to suppress emotions that led to me feeling a lot of internal stress and negatively impacted my mental health.
 
What am I doing differently now? 
  • Learning to speak about the challenges I am facing and take off the emotional load
 
#3: Do not let the stigma around Mental health stop you from getting help
There is still a lot of stigma around getting additional support when you need it. The way people talk about therapy and other mental health resources that can help your mental health can sometimes be discouraging. It is crucial to acknowledge when you need help and get the help you need. This is something that will help you live a great life and thrive.
 
What am I doing differently now? 
  • Leveraging the resources that help me take care of my mental health
 
#4: You need a community of people who care about mental health
Surrounding yourself with people who are aware and intentional about maintaining their mental health will make a huge difference. They help you see that you are not alone with whatever struggles you have, and we can all be there for each other through the good and bad days. Having honest conversations about how I'm doing mentally has really made a difference in my life. When I have check-ins with my support community, it helps remind me that things will always get better.
 
What am I doing differently now?
  • Sharing my honest feelings with people I trust 
 
#5: Show yourself some compassion and grace
Sometimes we are so hard on ourselves, which makes things worse for our emotional well-being. In situations where I spent time judging myself for feeling a certain way, it did not help me at all. It was easier for me to understand other people struggling with their mental health and give them grace, but I struggled to do the same for myself. When I feel down, I need to stop judging myself for how I feel. Being kind to myself relieves my stress and improves my mental health.
 
What am I doing differently now?
  • Being kind to myself when I am struggling and bring hopeful that things will get better for me 
 
Final Thoughts
Talking about our mental health needs to become a regular aspect of our lives. We share other physical health practices such as exercise or a healthy diet; imagine a world where people feel more comfortable sharing their mental health and getting help when needed.
 
Call to Action 
How are you maintaining your mental health? Prioritize your mental health
What have you learned about mental health that you want to unlearn? Unlearn things that do not serve you
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